Taking a break doesn't mean... giving up. And giving up might not even be a part of needing a break in some cases. People need time for themselves. To think in peace. Time to be apart, especially those who constantly text, see each other, etc. Take "Sex and the City" as your example. Although carry, the writer, takes part in a marriage she still decides to keep her old apartment for whenever she or any one of her friends need time alone. It's okay, to want to be alone when you're in a relationship. It can even be for the simplest of things like writing, or to just get away from always being with each other. It can be a good thing, because when you're done you'd actually end up missing each other- like Charlotte. That feeling of missing is still important in a partnership- it just gives you a good feeling of having something to look forward to. Something to be happy about. And being happy to see the person you're with is also important. Because if you aren't, then self evaluation needs to take place. But when that's the case, even to evaluate- take a break. It might not always be a bad thing and lead to a break up. It just means that we all need space. We were born alone, literally. We need to breathe sometimes. And that's more than natural.
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10/13/2017 12:06:33 pm
I enjoyed reading this post! I find the self care and evaluation is important in all areas of my life. On the other side of taking breaks I always feel more refreshed and at peace.
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Joaraliz T. Jimenez
10/13/2017 02:41:25 pm
Hey! Thank you so much for reading! And I’m so happy that you enjoyed reading. And yes, peacefulness is an amazing result we get out of removing ourselves for a day or two. Totally agree! Hope you stick around for more! Btw, here’s my IG in case you don’t already follow me: @joaraliztalishax
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